For the record I do have a few freinds. I guess you can call them ea's if you will. For some reason something I will absolutly not allow is a pa of anykind.

everyone tells me I should and that they would not blame me but I cant have a pa no way... screwed up code I have, ok with ea's but not pa's...

I could hear her now....my husband slept with another woman how dare he!!...Why would he do that to you, where you not sleeping with him? no I did not sleep with for two years but how dare he!!.......oh....