VH....I don't expect him to respond like he used to...he is now a different person no matter what he says...my life is changing and hopefully for the better....
YR....I really miss your advice...I do have my struggling days and that bomb of him taking my son to OW's house just told me he is truly finished...that he's moved on and wants to introduce my son to his future....made me truly sick to my stomach..and my son still hasn't mentioned that night he spent over there...if he was having a blast wouldn't he have mentioned something about that night...and as for my H not wanting my girls to know the truth...if it's something that needs to be hidden it's not right anyway...I'm not covering for him ever...and I dont give my children details of ANYTHING..I hold it all inside....
Last night at my son's baseball game my H at one point came and stood behind me....it just makes my blood boil, I didn't let him know that but the anxiety is unreal....at the end of the game I gathered my things and walked to the car....it's just hard for me to see him at all....
I'll be expecting divorce papers soon....he wants this over with for closure for our kids...all it will do is close him out of their lives...except for my S11....my D16 doesnt want me to let H take my son anymore...i have not asked him to do anything for since last weekend...it's not worth and all I would do is worry about where he is taking him....that truly broke my heart...I asked him not to do that and he just punched me in the gut.....AGAIN.....don't know what the OW is telling him but according to him she is a good person and opened her home to him and his kids...BLAH!!!I'll knock her into next week,,,
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
