If it were me, I'd want a little space to kind of deal with it. Sounds like your husband doesn't quite want to deal with it yet. You did the right thing offering. He'll change his mind at some point and want to visit at some point most likely. He may not though because of the pain it brings up about his mom.
How are you otherwise MB?
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
