When your d7 asked that question, which you KNOW she'll tell your w, couldn't you have said "Sometimes" and left it at that?
Start the 100 days over if you decide to do it. Which I doubt you will. B/C even after all this, ALL THIS ADVICE you still WILL NOT get it. (Note I did not say you "cannot" get it, b/c you can. You just won't.)
Everyone in the world knows you think you need your w for your happiness, and that is a big fat Unattractive burden to your wife.
But you keep on reminding her every chance you get or every chance your kids present to you so THEY can know too....you think that was what your d's needed to hear? It's NOT. They need to know you'll be alright no matter what.
Can't you give that to THEM? Show some progress. The answer you gave d7 is the SAME ANSWER YOU GAVE IN FEB/MARCH/APRIL AND MAY....
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