So divorce is only when its legal? I think divorce in the heart over rides the legal issue.
Try that one out with the judge or at the Pearly Gates.
My M is a sacred covenant between me and my wife. Feelings can change but your beliefs and values you need to have squared away.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
