When we start getting rid of pre-conceived notions & misinformation on MLC's, that's when you will see that a mid life crisis is normal part of the growth cycle. If it's a normal part of the growth cycle, how can it be a bad thing? MLC is a part of the growth process, don't discount the fact that you're an adult and you've stopped growing physically (getting taller, developing in certain areas, etc.) that you stop growing. This is a natural process, just like transitioning from toddler to preschooler to early elementary and eventually from pre-adolescence to adolescence and early adulthood. We don't stop growing and changing at age 20.
There are several stages to the MLC, this process is necessary for growth as an adult, as such the MLC is not a bad thing.
