Thanks everyone for your responses. I actually slept pretty well last night and feel good about the phone call. Went to a retirement ceremony today and got approached several times by a very pretty 26 year old. Wow. I think I'm going to be fine either way. Starting to regain some confidence. I had to stop myself from asking her out as I am still married and have morals.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!