WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[antlers]

Good job not calling her. What she thinks is not your problem.

The bottom line here is that she broke up with you.

You showed her that you can improve the reason why she broke up with you.

Its her choice now, her choice to want you back. She has to be the one to initiate it.

Do nothing.

Even if you got back together with her due to your persistence and it was not her decision 100% what kind of relationship would it be anyway?
she would just be on her high horse and disrespect you to no end.

You showed her what she is missing, she can take it or leave it.
If I were you I would start seeking some female companionship. It really does help your confidence and attitude. It will also shake her up .... thats what she needs, a good shake up shes too comfortable right now

I agree with most of your post. It's good stuff. I take exception though with "...start seeking female companionship. It really does help your confidence and attitude. It will also shake her up...".
CIPA is stll married! There are lots of people on this board because their spouses are CHEATING on them! If it was wrong for them to do it, and it was...then it's wrong for the LBS to do it! Two wrongs do not make a right. The trick is to increase your confidence and attitude through hard work while you are getting better and stronger...not through 'dating' while you are still married! If you really love your spouse and want to reconcile and spend your life with them...how in the world can one justify 'dating' while you're still married to them?
That's my 2 cents on that subject. No offense intended.