StrongMarvelousWoman and Puppy- Thank you both, your responses brought tears to my eyes. I wish I could stop the nightmares. By the way, Strong, I went to your sitch and it looks like you have it all under control. Just keep doing what you are doing.

Stuck- I left a message on your sitch.

GH31- This friendship doesn't bother my husband. If it did, I would stop. It also doesn't make me want to have an affair, it does the opposite. I'm only distancing myself because of the person that she is....needy, immoral, makes me feel bad about myself, wants different things in life, bad mother, etc. It's someone that I don't want to be around because she sucks the life out of me. So, I pick and choose when to see her.

Sugar, I'm on my way now.