I would just encourage you to prepare yourself emotionally for the possibility that this guy wasn't the first, and that her infidelity goes back further.
Trust me...that's where I am at right now. This was a completely unexpected twist, after what we have been through this past year.
I may have had that 1% doubt eating at me through all of this, but the shear amount of time we spend together and the things we have done over this past year has always eased my mind.
NDS is wide awake now. I will not be made a fool of.
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I'd also suggest that although you're thinking you're "not even going to get into it with her" right now, she IS going to ask you "what's up?" and "why are you acting this way??" You've been a best friend to her for so long now, she's going to notice the emotional pullback, and she WILL ask you about it.
And she probably has a right to know why.
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She was my best friend, too. Best friends don't do things like this to each other.
She knows I know about the texts and that was discussed. The other things will wait, or maybe it will never come up and we are on our way to separate paths finally. That's what I need to decide.
Either way, I have no intention of being the old me that got me where I was last year. Unconditional love and unemotional interactions are are my goals right now. I don't hate her, and I am trying to get past the anger and hurt.
For all I know she has no intentions of picking up where we left off before the twist...maybe she won't have it in her.
Either way, I know that if that is what she wants, or thinks she can have, she doesn't deserve it right now.
