The only thing keeping her from running is her equal fear of the impact of D on her. She say's that she knows that I would "Get Ugly" in a D. The end result would be that she would have to move out of her house and away from her friends, go back to work full time when she is not yet ready to, and give up 50% of her time with her kids (joint custody). Plus I think she would be afraid of the reaction from her family, our joint friends, etc.
Imagine that fear is keeping her in limbo. She knows the reality of what she proposes but she has lost hope. So understand she is afraid and use this intel. You can push the fear button or slowly love her out of this. Lead on Thinker.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
