At no point in any of my threads have I said or even intimated that this isn't my fault.
Maybe WAW is just a tough crowd....
We tend to attract people who challenge us. Haven't we already established 50/50 fault allotment?
I don't think it is your fault and sorry for the pscyho-analysis...was just relating, knowing of course, there are millions of details that differentiate our sitches.
It does seem obvious to me though, that if space is her thing and now she's getting it, it is safe for her to move closer to you.
ALSO, since when are we listening to WAS (re: sleeping alone...)? I can testify on this having watched my bf's D...she doesn't have a clue how she's gonna feel. She's still in the fog.
