I was supposed to go dark. But here I am wondering if I should bring up marriage counseling again with my WAH who hasn't been going with me. And I went I called and texted him yesterday about stepson and went over there. I take it you don't think I've been going dark?
What is my idea of dark? I guess it would be to move forward with my life and do NOT contact him. Detach from him. Be busy and upbeat when he does come around. Project happiness.
What is everybody else's idea of going dark?
Me 40 WAH 43 T 4years M 9 1/2 months Stepson 9 H left on 5/17/09
