My W rang me earlier today crying her eyes out. She told me her lawyer has advised her NOT to leave the marital home. We all know this advice is standard stuff, but my W is concerned that I will not leave the marital home at the end of November as I had stated to her when I return in June when she leaves to go to her parents home.

She has no trust in me anymore as she wants me to have a legal document drawn up to make the date legal. I told her as she wants me to leave she should have the document drawn up for me to sign.

We then entered into the R and her blaming me for everything, also not having a job, I don't respect you, I don't love you....


I told her she would have to start contributing to the mortgage and council tax as I am coming close to financial collapse. She said she could not afford it and would contact her L again to discuss.

It is now getting messy because it is not going her way. I must hold the line, hold the line and remain strong.

Any views or advice would be great.


Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years