Wow Sandi, reading your reaction to robx makes me feel better about my situation. I hope my W someday sees her actions like you now see yours. I've been beating myself up an awful lot over my failures in my M, almost to the point of thinking my W was totally justified in doing what she did. I don't know if there was another way for my W and I to break out of the bad state we were in, but I'll never think what she did was my fault. Thank you.
