Well put - they don't know what they want right now; only what they don't want.
Here's to keeping hope alive - I'm not interested in taking control by moving ahead with divorce either. But I agree that we can control ourselves, our reactions, our attitudes. I'll try to maintain that focus as well.
Great job getting so fit! I bet your W notices... even if she doesn't say a word! More importantly, you feel good about it and that's what counts!
