Could use some insight...long...

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HA! Not sure about the Thursday thing. Maybe just stay in bed and don't communicate with anyone.

When exh and I were going thru our D, I made him do all the work. I waited until the last possible day to sign papers, get information etc. All it did was tick exh off and make me feel pathetic. A divorce is just a piece of paper. If you two are meant to R then it will happen.

I know your W is not at all like my exh, but thier thinking is so strange. All thru our separation/divorce the first time we were still seeing eachother and sleeping together. I was holding on for dear life. He would spend a weekend with me and then Monday would have this revealation that we could never work. It was a pattern. One weekend we spent together and then Monday came and I was served D papers. HE knew they were coming, never said a word. Most WAS are avoiding conflict. If you read most threads they either hide and avoid contact or they try and act like this is all normal.

Oh, Is today your Bday? Its my daughters too!