Im finding I dont feel the need to come here much, I still try to come keep up with you all and keep you all updated.
Im at work right now its 12 miday and half an hour ago I recieved a text from H asking me if I fancy lunch He does this regularly latley, never did it before, he is trying and I am so happy with that.
Its time I said a big thank you to Michele and everyone here, I really think we are going to make it.
Although H is not back home he is definatly trying to make our R work. Actually I think he wants to come home but doesn't know how to. Its difficult, Im not sure yet either, it feels like moving a starnger in now. I might suggest we buy a new house and move in there togetehr when the time is right. That way H doesn't have to face the neighbours lol.
Actually this weekend when we were having a R talk, I said to H maybe you were just un happy here, with this house?? H said I have never liked this house !!! hmmm he never told me.
So maybe my sugestion will be a good idea.
We are off to New york next month.. My birthday treat
So I think I will wait till after then.
Thank you all on this board and Thank you to Michele, she is a guardian angel of that im sure .