I so want to talk to H about this. But, is there any point? I feel like it is inconsequential. I want him to know what the kids are going through AND I want him to know how I handle it. Aargh, he really is irrelevant.
He is irrelevant. I suspect you believe, in your heart of hearts, that if Monsoor "hears" this, really "hears" this, he'll change his mind.