Im sorry VD. One thing I have learned is that you never assume anything with the WAS behavior. There could be many motives behind it.

I agree with Kass. Try and go dark as much as you can.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!