paul im no guru, I cant tell you what truly is best for you... yanno one of the biggest things i hear from you is your lack of self trust...
you post on here, you an empathetic feeling man... at the end of the day we all do what we feel is right, and live with those choices, and we do it for US not them or the marriage...
only you know what is exactly right for you, not THE MARRIAGE. not HER. not GETTING HER BACK. just for you, as a person. dont ever do anything in rage, or anger, or despair; thats my only real advice .
When you're down to nothing, God is up to something.
