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Re: You'll never see me fall from grace blindsided1 #1778651 06/05/09 06:33 AM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 2,371 CA S Sugar and Spice OP Member
OP Sugar and Spice Member S Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 2,371 CA	Im so confused right now. Its like being back at the beginning. Things are very volatile right now because despite H telling me that he and OW are over and he wants to come home. She has been calling him and is all upset and this in turn has made things rough between us. Today he and I had a disagreement and it got ugly and he pretty much told me that I treat him horribly and thats why he left and nothing has changed. We treat each other badly and make no effort to change. He also said that he feels like we have tried and nothing has changed. When I told him that I didn't agree with that because there were 3 of us in the R. His contention is that it doesn't matter if we each had OP, that we just have a toxic R and it will never change. I can't seem to get him to understand that as long as there isn't 100% effort given, then how could we have tried? How can you try when you have 1 foot out the door and the OP is telling you how bad it was and how much better it is w/them. I know that OW tells him how bad it is between us and reminds him how miserable he was here. I'm sure of it. Its pretty much what she told me. I'm really torn here... M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option

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You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/12/09 07:16 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	03/12/09 07:38 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/12/09 07:47 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	03/12/09 08:01 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	fightingirish	03/12/09 09:01 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	03/18/09 08:49 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/19/09 08:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	03/19/09 08:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/19/09 08:59 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	03/19/09 09:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/20/09 01:50 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	03/20/09 02:31 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/20/09 05:17 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Beans	03/20/09 07:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/20/09 07:50 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Beans	03/20/09 08:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	03/20/09 08:17 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	03/20/09 11:37 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/22/09 04:12 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	bluerain	03/22/09 08:48 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	fightingirish	03/24/09 08:26 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	03/30/09 05:38 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/30/09 11:57 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/31/09 11:42 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	StrgMarvelousWmn	04/01/09 01:05 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	04/01/09 02:25 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/01/09 07:22 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/01/09 07:31 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	04/01/09 08:56 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	04/01/09 09:16 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/01/09 09:26 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/01/09 10:23 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	04/01/09 10:32 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/02/09 05:24 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	marriedCrazy	04/02/09 11:43 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	lost_in_space	04/02/09 12:46 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	fightingirish	04/02/09 01:23 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/02/09 01:31 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	04/02/09 01:48 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	04/02/09 02:19 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	StrgMarvelousWmn	04/02/09 02:36 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/02/09 04:06 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/02/09 05:01 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	StrgMarvelousWmn	04/02/09 05:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	04/02/09 05:18 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/02/09 05:59 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/02/09 07:58 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/02/09 08:20 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/03/09 11:29 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	fightingirish	04/04/09 12:40 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/15/09 06:11 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/15/09 01:09 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	04/15/09 05:02 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/15/09 05:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/15/09 08:10 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/18/09 06:03 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	04/18/09 06:54 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	lost_in_space	04/18/09 07:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	bluerain	04/18/09 07:07 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/19/09 03:37 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	04/19/09 03:51 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	04/19/09 06:09 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/19/09 06:52 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	bluerain	04/19/09 07:24 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	04/20/09 02:52 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/20/09 12:23 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/20/09 05:02 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/20/09 05:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	04/20/09 06:35 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	04/20/09 07:31 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/20/09 11:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/21/09 12:25 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	04/21/09 03:36 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/21/09 04:45 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/21/09 04:51 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Babygirl	04/21/09 06:08 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/21/09 07:17 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/21/09 07:19 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Babygirl	04/21/09 07:23 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/21/09 07:34 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/21/09 09:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/23/09 11:32 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/23/09 11:53 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	04/24/09 02:11 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/24/09 03:41 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/28/09 10:45 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	04/29/09 02:08 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/07/09 07:24 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	05/07/09 10:00 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	05/08/09 01:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	05/08/09 04:16 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	05/10/09 04:57 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	05/10/09 08:09 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	05/12/09 01:00 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/13/09 10:20 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/14/09 07:15 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sara	05/14/09 07:50 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Babygirl	05/14/09 07:54 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	05/14/09 08:30 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	05/14/09 10:20 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	05/15/09 01:36 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	girlfromipanema	05/15/09 08:38 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	05/18/09 05:24 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/18/09 07:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	05/18/09 09:42 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/20/09 04:41 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	05/20/09 04:57 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/20/09 06:01 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Babygirl	05/20/09 06:13 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/21/09 03:40 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	05/21/09 10:43 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/21/09 11:08 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	girlfromipanema	05/22/09 12:14 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	05/22/09 01:11 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/22/09 06:29 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	05/23/09 12:24 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/28/09 11:24 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/29/09 09:29 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	FightingFit	05/29/09 10:39 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	FightingFit	05/29/09 10:56 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	05/29/09 12:31 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/29/09 09:11 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/29/09 09:12 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/29/09 09:13 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/29/09 09:48 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/29/09 09:48 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	FightingFit	05/30/09 06:46 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	05/30/09 08:07 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	05/30/09 12:42 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	05/30/09 04:02 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/30/09 07:32 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	05/31/09 12:35 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/04/09 08:03 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/05/09 06:33 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	FightingFit	06/05/09 10:37 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/05/09 12:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/05/09 01:29 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/05/09 04:18 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	06/05/09 04:35 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Exhausted67	06/05/09 09:03 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/09/09 05:33 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/09/09 05:42 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/09/09 05:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/09/09 06:27 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	06/09/09 09:51 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/10/09 04:35 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sara	06/11/09 05:41 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/12/09 06:13 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/12/09 01:21 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/14/09 05:16 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/15/09 05:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/15/09 05:49 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/15/09 08:08 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	06/15/09 08:26 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/15/09 09:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/15/09 10:53 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/17/09 03:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/17/09 06:06 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	fightingirish	06/17/09 06:19 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/17/09 08:21 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/17/09 09:54 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/17/09 11:49 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/18/09 12:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/22/09 09:21 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	06/24/09 11:20 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	06/25/09 02:36 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/25/09 02:53 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	06/25/09 03:37 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/26/09 03:22 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	faithisbelieving	06/26/09 03:06 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/26/09 05:24 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	06/30/09 06:43 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/30/09 09:33 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	07/13/09 08:14 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	07/13/09 08:22 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	07/13/09 09:25 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	07/13/09 09:46 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	07/19/09 03:47 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	07/19/09 08:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	07/20/09 09:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	07/30/09 07:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	07/30/09 08:58 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	07/31/09 02:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	07/31/09 09:11 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	08/17/09 03:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	08/29/09 12:36 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	08/29/09 06:24 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	08/31/09 09:17 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/03/09 05:07 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	09/03/09 05:19 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/03/09 05:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	09/03/09 06:02 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/03/09 06:09 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	09/03/09 06:13 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	09/03/09 06:16 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/03/09 06:45 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	09/03/09 06:57 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/03/09 07:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	09/04/09 12:01 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	09/04/09 04:46 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/10/09 03:18 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	09/10/09 02:02 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	09/10/09 02:26 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	09/21/09 11:26 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	12/26/09 06:50 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	12/28/09 05:11 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	12/29/09 09:17 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	01/18/10 07:13 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	01/19/10 01:39 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	01/20/10 07:14 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	chatterbug	01/20/10 11:50 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	01/20/10 03:10 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	01/20/10 07:25 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/18/10 05:07 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	06/21/10 05:14 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/21/10 06:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	11/04/10 06:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	11/04/10 06:31 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	sgctxok	11/08/10 05:51 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	09/03/09 06:14 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	07/13/09 09:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	06/25/09 04:18 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/25/09 05:41 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	04/02/09 05:29 PM

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