That's my thoughts exactly. I've said it before -- I feel like I'm dealing with a petulant and nasty 14-year old girl. Not a mature rational woman at all.
I've traded barbs with the ex via email. She's pushing and pushing. And making snide remarks. I've let her get to my buttons. But I don't care to hold back much anymore. She sent another missive to me this morning castigating me for being annoyed by her callous actions. In reply, I let her have it. Among other things, I told her I was on to her b-s.
I am fighting to keep a lid on it. Continually trying to remind myself that not only is she beyond hope, but she's not even worth my efforts, even if I could effect things, which I can't.
I scheduled another IC session for this weekend -- it's been a couple of months now.
I also am trying to speak with my L. Trying to gear up for the mediation hearing.
