Why would you want to have contact with her? Because she's your W and if you didn't care, you wouldn't be angry about this. Keeping the lines of communication open now will make her homecoming more comfortable for you both. If you ignore her now, she will feel you've already made up your mind about the situation and when discussions do happen, they could be heated. I'm not saying you couldn't limit your contact, but still be open to communicating.
Let me ask you, what will avoiding contact with her do for you? What will this do for you when she comes home?
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I understand what you are saying, and trust me I do not want things strained and uncomfortable when I first see her. I am spending this time I have until she get backs gathering my thoughts and my strength and detaching.
For me, if you knew how I had been this past year, it would be almost impossible to avoid complete contact with her..maybe first contact, but I wouldn't go 4 or 5 days without answering a text or phone call.
She texted me this morning...."what's up?"...she wanted to see if I was "alright".
I said yes, why and asked what she was doing.
She said they were doing blah, blah, blah...and ended it with "really..just wanted to see if you were alright"
I told her to have a nice day.
My thoughts about avoiding contact with her have more to do with knowing that she really doesn't want to go out of her way to contact me.
I can count on 2 hands the number of texts and calls I have got from her. The other dude has had hundreds....pictures too.
