The adventure continues--the saga goes on

[AFWAW]

I just called and confronted her! I must be feeling manly tonight. Caught her off guard I think. I said I'm pissed that you think you can talk to D about household chores and bitch at her when you aren't even raising her. She said, you're right, I'll stop. I said, I'm also pissed that you continue to lie to me about the OM. She said, excuse me? I said, yeah, BTW I even know who he is. She said, really. How do you know this? I said, that's not important, the important thing is that you're still doing it and it's not acceptable. She said, fine, I'm going to go ahead and file. I said, I think that's a great idea. She said, really? I said, and from now on, you don't need to call me anymore either. Additionally, you're not welcome in the house, we'll meet somewhere to transfer D between us and if something is up w/ D we can converse via email. She said, so you're not gonna talk to me anymore? I said, you got it. She said, well, if I have to choose tonight, I want a divorce. I said, you're the one who brought up the divorce, not me. She said, well, it's like this, I'm scared to get a divorce and I'm scared to come home. I asked, why are you scared to come home? She said, I think you'll hold stuff over my head. I said, like you're infidelity? She said, yes. I said, well, so now you're telling me again that you've had sex with other men? She said no. I said, which is it, yes or no? Why do you continue to lie to me? She said yes, I've had sex w/ other men. Ok, I said, why are you still seeing the OM? She said, I'm not. I said, ok, I have to go. She said, no really, I ended it. I asked her, how am I supposed to know if you're lying or not and based on what I know, I think you are. She asked me what my intentions were. I said, intentions about what? With the information that you think you have. I said, oh, I don't think I have it, I have it. She said, well, what do you intend to do. I said, you know, I don't think that you should be asking me questions like that at this point. These are the type of questions I may answer for my wife but you are choosing not to be my wife at this point so I don't feel obligated to answer them. She said, you're going to be mean, nasty and vindictive aren't you? I said, you're basing that on what? I said, I don't think you can say that I've ever been that way toward anyone. She said, If I came home, how do I know things would be different? I said, you don't know, because you've refused to come home thus far. She said well, I don't know what to do. I said, well something needs to happen and it needs to happen fairly quickly because I don't intend to continue like this very much longer. She said, what's that mean? I said, like I said, you don't get to ask me questions about my intentions anymore. If you divorce me, you know enough, you know how things will be. If you want to work on our marriage, you need to let me know.

This went on for a while. She kept me on the phone. I shook her up I think. She ended the conversation by telling me to have a good night? Whatever.

This could get more interesting. I feel better having made that phone call. I hope I shook her up.

thoughts????