WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[confusedinpa]

maybe you should go hardcore like robx has been telling me. I don't think it would work in my sitch, but you never know.

I've been following what he said. It seemed pretty extreme. Not sure if I'm ready for that type of move nor do I think it will help get my wife back.

Personally, I think she would take it as a true absolution of any responsibility she had that brought us to this point. She will cast herself as the innocent wife that lost the love of her husband years ago but stuck it out as long as she could before getting the courage to get out of such an emotionally abusive relationship. She will take it as affirmation of that I would say that I loved her but didn't really feel it.

I'm really curious of how Sandi or other WAW's chime in on.

My WAW friend, when she talks about her husband who she walked away from 6 months ago, keeps saying that she wished he would find someone else so he would leave her alone.

So that could be another route that could take.