Had a counselling session talking abt finances and it's not good. H is starting to be a jerk and the anxiety of things is coming back. I wish I could skip this part and just move directly home. He is making good money but he won't go to bat for us with his employer. If he went to them, then they could free up a lot more for us to live on. We will see. My counsellor has asked him to work on it. But I know he is not motivated to 'confront' so it may be difficult for him to have convos about this kind of thing.
I need to stand firm so I don't get scr*wed over.
YES YOU DO...you know it. So, here's to Clarity! Have a plan that does not require the C to "talk" with h if there is no follow up. I mean what is the plan for YOU if h doesn't do his part? I get the feeling he won't or at least he won't be doing it in a normal timely way (b/c MLCers measure time with a different dimension or something....) Seriously...hang in there. This may well be the grossest part (well, recently) so if you can take care of this cr#p, a milestone will be passed AND you may find SOME peace...geez...sending hugs!
((( J )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
