My WAW friend at work, who I've been talking to about my situation to try and understand the WAW mentality my wife may be going through, had lamented about how she wished her husband (she walked away 6 months ago) would just find someone else he was interested in so he would leave her alone.

So, this could easily backfire on someone.....

I do agree on one thing, it's probably not the best position to be in where she may think that you are always the backup plan in the event she needs to go back to someone.

Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13