Heather,

Hi,

The book I gave my H was Awakening at Midlife, this I felt didn't seem so condecending lol, Like i was saying hey mister your having a MLC I told him that I had been through a transition and this book really helped me.
I must say that I only did that when I felt the time was right, a few Monthe ago H would never have accepted that book.

If you want information for yourself Books I recommened are:

Men in midlife crisis ~ Jim Conway
Your Husbands Midlife crisis ~ Sally Conway ( this one is hard to get hold of, I got it from rarebooks.com )
I cant remember what the other one is called but its by Pat gautier and there is a website attached to it called Midlifewivesclub.com, that website has a forum..like this one.

Heather, if you think your H may be in MLC, go to MLC forum and read all of Hearts blessings and Snodderly's stuff, even if H isn't in MLC, its really good reading.

Sue