thanks mdoodles. its very confusing on thinking how to respond and wondering if I am pursuing. I feel like she is trying to communicate with me at times and I have been short lately thinking that was the right thing to do because I don't want to look like I am pursuing.
Another example:
She was going to have a getaway Girl weekend with one of her best friends this weekend. She's had it planned for a month or two.
Yesterday she said, "you know our couple friends (name here) invited us over to their house and bring the kids over on Friday night to hang out with them to cook out and play on the jumpy jump." "We could go over there for a while and I could leave afterwards to go to my Girl weekend." I really don't need to be there until Saturday morning anyway."
"I said that sounds good. Up to you. Whether you can work out the logistics (little bit of travel involved in the whole scenario)."
Then when I talked to her today, she said, "So I don't know if we should go or not." "You're good with it. I guess it's up to me, right?" I said, "Yes." She then said, "Well if it rains there's really no point in going, because the kids can't play outside as planned on the jumpy jump and we can't cook out."
I said, "Yeah you're right just let me know."
Then a friend encouraged me to text her later to tell her I was just finishing up some work (I'm out of town on work) on the internet and noticed that it was not supposed to rain tomorrow. I did.
Does anyone see any flaws with the communication? Any pro DB'ers?
