My W told me "I wish you would find someone already!"
I think that was her way of saying...back off. I just flipped that back at her and said that was disrespectful to our Ds and to me who just want her and not another mother. I also told her that she was being disrespectful to herself because it was like saying, find someone better than me. After that, she never brought it up again.
I think they say that about us having another person (when our Ss have had an A) so it makes what they did much more acceptable.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.