That is probably the most honest answer that I have ever received. i feel that there is much more to this. As her self esteem issues are apparent. She sleeps a lot, has back pain...this is a reason for her....and she always is worried. But I love her and cherish this relationship. I think just backing off completely is the key, and loving her the way a friend would. Thanks for your advice. i really like this site, it is a blessing.
Cheers
ME 43 Her 37 Married 6/98 2 sons 8 and 3 Love em tons Seperated March 20th Her- not sure Me willing to make changes