"I have asked him not to have any contact with OW other than relating to the child, and to go to Retrouvaille with me, and then said I'd see where we were after that."

This is going to be the hard part. Especially if the kid wants to go on a trip with "mom and dad", schooling, etc.

Hugs to you though. You definitely need them.

{{{stuck}}}


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER