WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[confusedinpa]

I don’t know if you are a good actor but you can’t show the hurt/pain/ love in your eyes.

You may have to truly fall out of love with her.
When this is gone and she believes it is gone it will unfortunately hurt her. I believe she will then want it back. How she does this I don’t know, she may pursue you, she make try and make you jealous etc..

I agree with others that she is not the typical walk away, I believe that is why she does not have an om … she does not want to take it too far for fear of losing the feeling of being loved, loosing the power she has over you.

Theroadback,

That's a very unique perspective you are offering here. That's what I really like aobut this forum. People looking with fresh eyes with their thoughts.

Personally, I feel that if I did something like that, show her that I have fallen out of love for her would just reinforce what she has felt over the years and that I have really not changed.

I could be wrong though. My track record of being right has really been pretty bad relative to my situation.

Anyone else have any opinion on this strategy?