Why not?

[Thinker]

This is, I must say one area that is quite different for most men vs. women.

And, what a mindf*ck it can be...flirty, romantic, enticing...still leaving...so, my resolve must be ironclad.

Imagine Mrs. Thinker starts giving you the vibe, means something, stirs something in you, right? Well, I have to walk the line. I may ALWAYS want H to want me but I've got to keep it cool.

If you read back in my thread a bit you will see that Mrs Thinker has done just that to me a number of times in the past few months - and each time she withdrew immediately afterwards, and each time it screwed me up emotionally - me being one man who can't seem to separate his heart from his pants.

I do know what is like.

To quote several people (including SP here) "sex is not a golden bridge to reconciliation".