Also, remember how "very very busy" you are these days: "It's so great that you are going to be back on Monday H, because now I won't need to get a babysitter. You can spend some time with the kids while I'm out. They really missed you!"
There is nothing requiring you to spent time with your H when he gets back - stay away and ignore him, especially for the first few days when it will be hardest foer you!
Last edited by Thinker; 06/05/0912:17 AM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
