Thanks to everyone here that helped me stand up and question her has made me feel better about myself. I knew the letter wasn't going to change her mind but it changed me to help me be stronger.
No worries Mr Mom.
Listen, you have to do this to preserve your dignity and your self respect. And ... if there is any hope for your marriage it will be because you were strong like this and respected yourself.
My heart goes out to you - I know what it's like when your W goes off with OM for a weekend and it is painful beyond measure.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
