What you have here is a power struggle, it seems. Whether you like to or not, she has engaged you on this level.
She is not rethinking about your R at all.
So what you need to do is to protect yourself financially. Call the credit card company yourself and take your name off. Or, do what I did, I asked my H to return the credit cards to me right away, as the card was in MY NAME. He whinged and complained but he went ahead and got new cards in his name only. No harm done. He just didn't want to do the work.
But my point is, if you are worried financially, it's better to divide things up. It's not pretty but try to be civil. I know as I am going thru it now. Hate doing this but got to keep interest of kids in mind. Don't want to screw with H but he will be earning a lot more money than me and I know he can afford what I am asking.
Just my two cents.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
