Incidentally, I believe my W is in the throes of a bad MLC, and in on the materials I've read on the subject, there is nothing you can do to change their mind. All you can do is hang on and weather the storm.
Believing there is nothing you can do is yet another action item for you to work on.
You can always do something.
Lot's of women & men go through MLC and at the same time carry on with emotional & physical affairs so they are still functional, it's not like they're broken.
You just sitting there & waiting for her to come to her senses is a sure fire way to make sure she doesn't ever come back to you. Why would she? What would be the impetus for her to change and to return just because you're silent and taking no action? What would increase her attraction towards you if you are silent and don't do anything.
You are still analyzing this problem using your own built in male logic and you fail to realize that some of that logic is what got you here in the first place.
