i think its all about timing....if u sense u have an opening with her, she is seeming receptive to u, u can try to communicate what u want to say.

but if she is standoffish, not in the mood and is pulling back, anything u will say will sound like pursuing.

pretty sure in the book there is a part about timing and how it plays a role.

also there is a part called, medium is the message...which talks about different ways to express yourself.

i have been at this a very long time, and i do know there are steps forward, and then back again.

do not pursue when they pull back. that much i know.

hope this helps.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09