i think its all about timing....if u sense u have an opening with her, she is seeming receptive to u, u can try to communicate what u want to say.
but if she is standoffish, not in the mood and is pulling back, anything u will say will sound like pursuing.
pretty sure in the book there is a part about timing and how it plays a role.
also there is a part called, medium is the message...which talks about different ways to express yourself.
i have been at this a very long time, and i do know there are steps forward, and then back again.
do not pursue when they pull back. that much i know.
hope this helps.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09