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I'm sorry you still aren't completely up to par. Take it one day at a time. Your h not inquiring about you or your health is typical behavior...they are very much into the me mode.

Always try to remember...this is his road to travel, these are his demons to deal with. You have no control over him or what he does, but you can control your own life and destiny and the destiny of your child. You will never make sense of what he's going through because you don't understand the issues he's dealing w/and yes, depression and emotions are driving him to do the things he's doing.

As Peace mentioned, some drop in, others drop out and then there are the chronic visitors who can't get rid of at all. Jim and Sally Conway have two exceptionally good books out there on the Midlife Crisis. Sally is the one that actually described the three "drops".

I, please take care of yourself. It's important that you get plenty of rest, eat write and get exercise whenever you can.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.