I think she feels loved by you right now. More so now than she has in the last few years.
I think she likes it, makes her feel comfortable and complete having that love.
This is what she is getting out of it. She knows you, she sees it in your eyes and in your actions. before the bomb she saw indifference. She feels that if she goes back to you she will loose the love she feels from you right now.
She shook you up and she knows it. She is enjoying the feeling of power, revenge and the feeling of being loved.
What really shook you up? I don’t think is was the action of filing for divorce or wanting to move out so much as the death of the love she had for you, you felt it die and that hurt.
You need to take this away from her or things will not improve. The thing is, she knows you very very well she reads your eyes she see's your actions. I don’t think she listens a whole lot to what you say.
I don’t know if you are a good actor but you can’t show the hurt/pain/ love in your eyes.
You may have to truly fall out of love with her. When this is gone and she believes it is gone it will unfortunately hurt her. I believe she will then want it back. How she does this I don’t know, she may pursue you, she make try and make you jealous etc..
I agree with others that she is not the typical walk away, I believe that is why she does not have an om … she does not want to take it too far for fear of losing the feeling of being loved, loosing the power she has over you.
