I think it goes back to whether or not you really want him. Can you trust him? If he's had the PA for years, it sounds to me like he ran back to you like a dog with its tail between its legs because it was caught doing something naughty.
Are you sure he is willing to really work on the M and not just have another A after things cool off? I worry because you are the main breadwinner and he seems like he doesn't want to give up his security blanket (you). What sacrifices is he willing to make? If he opened his mouth to say he'll take care of the financials of the baby, then he should get a second/third job without burdening you and your kids. What is he willing to do?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
