I think we all struggle with that even in this little DB microcosm, as exhibited on this and other threads.

We can't change other people. Who knows which poster shows up as a rep for God to lead the way...or who shows up to challenge and test our resolves?

This is a live and learn, subjective deal here; Fascinating, enlightening and painful to live it and to experience others living it.

I'm done waxing philosophical...for now... wink