Times like that, before she even gets started, you should just say, sorry you feel like that and end it. She's the one who's going to end up with the crappy life, yet wants to blame all the unahppiness on you. Don't worry, all WASs do that. They cut down the LBS to prop themselves up. I was amazed at the type of things my W would tell me.
If she continues to rant at you, then draw a line and tell her that you will not be talked down to that way and if she is willing to talk in a civilized manner, then you will continue to TALK. If not, then you have nothing more to discuss. Wish her a nice day and hang up gently. The thing is to stop the disrespect for you.
She has to respect you again first and foremost whether you decide to DB or not. You are the father of her child and you are not the one who is cheating. No matter what you may or may not have done in the past, it is no excuse for her ML with another man.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
