I agree the situation is different. I think you got some good advice to start with there. It is hard day by day, it seems you are doing pretty good so good for you. But it is a long road so take care of yourself too so you dont burn out.
I think it is good she asked 'what about us?' Also think its good she is open to talking/chatting with you, the reaction seems positive.
Try and keep busy in your spare time with things you enjoy or possibly stopped doing for yourself. Find some new activities, etc. Build your confidence as that will make you feel better and will be attractive to W.
How did you find your DB coach? Did this give you a lot of help? I am thinking about getting one.
Me-27 H-28 M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs No kids B 1/09 S 2/09