Originally Posted By: SoConfused Well, it won't be me that gets hurt if he leaves. Obviously too unbalanced to see that. I'll have no guilt about it. What he chooses is his choice. I won't take any of the blame.
No, you're right, it won't be.....It will be your children that get hurt.
Fairly certain that you don't want that on your plate in ten years.....I wouldn't
That isn't fair to put the blame on her. She can't control what he does. If he chooses to pack up and leave town, she can't stop him. All she can do is be there for her children.
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SoCo, he is running out of buttons to push, and he is looking for you to reach back and save him, although he wouldn't accept that help anyway. HE has to deal with himself.
You said it right there...HE HAS TO DEAL WITH HIMSELF. She can't save him. It isn't up to her to save him. He has to save himself.
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Use this time to accept the things that you DID do wrong, cause no one is perfect....So yes, some of the blame is you, sorry to burst that bubble.....
You can't burst a bubble that isn't there. She said she wouldn't take the blame if he chooses to leave and she shouldn't. He is a grown man and make his own decisions. If he chooses to leave his children behind, he has to live with that, not her.
