Waiting for my Wife's Heart to change

[BeingaBetterMan]

Help..I have read Michell's books Divorce Remedy, My wife and I have been married for 11 years. two wonderful boys, and a very happy home. I have built resentment over her weight gain to the point that I damaged our intimacy and relationship, she built up walls like Jericho. Finally she had enough, she informed me that she wanted out. i was shocked..because over the last year I had actually put the physical behind me in our relationship, but the damage was done. Ther is nothing more that I want than to have my "eternal companion with me for ever. I I have made some seriouse changes, but she is still unsure. We are in a no sex relationship, but the hardest part for me is having here heart far from me. We are truly best friends, our councilor tells me that I need to be patient for my wife to see my changes are permanent. How long will this take? I know that I am over those issues, but How can I gain her trust back without begging or pleading?