Pretend you are going on a "sex interview". The interviewer is your wife and is who you are applying to have sex with, but pretend for the exercise that she is just a beautiful woman and you want to seduce her.
Now, tell us what you will tell the interviewer to convince her you would give her a good time in bed. You don't have to get graphic about sex acts you will perform or whatever...just tell us "why" she should want to have sex with you. Leave out anything that sounds like "because I love you" or "because I'm a good and faithful husband". Those items are moot.
See what you can come up with. There is a reason I am asking.
DQ
Wow - this kind of thing is really hard for me. Let me see what I can do.
1. You'll feel great when I caress you and hold you in my big, strong arms. 2. I would love to try to kiss every inch of your body. 3. You will enjoy my lean, fit body and I will enjoy yours. 4. I care about satisfying you and making you feel good, and would love to rock your world. 5. I want us to feel close and connected as only ML can.
That's what I can come up with right now. Is this what you have in mind?
Last edited by Vigilant1; 06/04/0907:54 PM.
ME: 46/W:44 M: 6 years S: 4 Bomb: 1/20/09 SSM 2004-present marital therapy began 2/09 neither of us want divorce.. yet
