But you can't let your kids keep you from doing stuff/enjoying yourself...
How far are you from the ocean? Just to go to the big water for a day or two and walk the beach is very centering (I'll be in Florida for a week starting this Saturday-- hot and humid as hell there this time of year, but I am still looking forward to it. I'll be with my parents, though).
Please take care. We are all thinking and praying for you and your family.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
I know I said I wasn't going to post here again until after D was finalised but tonight my worst nightmare came true and I need the support of people who understand.
OW IS PREGNANT
H told the two younger kids tonight as D14 is staying with him this week. I hate that he did this because now I can't be with them at the one time that they might need me.
Yet again it was D19 who told me. She found out from D14 who had rung to tell her. She said that although D14 was not crying at the time she could tell that she had been.
I've spoken to them all now and D14 did come round to see me but only stayed for about 20 mins. She has now gone back there which has doubly upset me but I'm sure she didn't realise that.
H left me just before Christmas and now this baby is also due at Christmas. Ny guess she got pregnant when they went away to Barcelona for his bday. If I'm right baby will e due roud about MILs bday.
Every time I think I'm turnig a corner this happens.
I do have some good news though. I passed my degree with a distinction and graduate on Friday. Also I got an article approved for publication in the professional press and it will appear in Saturday's edition. I just wish I had someone special to share all of this with.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
I am so sorry about what happened. I do understand so much that it is your worst nightmare coming true!!!
At least things go so well for you with your education. I congratulate you on your degree with a distinction and graduation on Friday as well as the article approved for publication. I can relate so well to you wishing to share all of this with somebody special. (((HUGS)))
